Hey, I'm Mirjam!

holistic sexuality coach & psychologist

My work is here to support you in the awakening and use of your sexual energy! When you know how to embody and use this, you become a very powerful being. There is so much amazing potential inside of us that is not being used.

But most people struggle with their sexuality, to really live its potential, also in relationships. At this moment I feel fulfilled in my relationship and sexuality. The relationship with myself and the sexual relationship with myself, as well as with the relationship with the Man and my sexual relationship with him. It is honest, pleasurable, secure, calm, hot, sexy, juicy, joyful, nourishing and fulfilling.

this kind of sex did not just fall out of the sky...

Nine years ago, I experienced pain during sex regularly and asked myself if this is all there is... having read in my teens already about orgasm being the same state as enlightenment (thank you Osho), but I was definitely not experiencing that.
I felt there was more. I wanted to be devoured and desired passionate fulfilling sex, but I didn’t really know how to open up to that myself either. How to invite my partner into this in a loving way. How to receive without pain. How to embody my inner wild woman without feeling too much. Let alone know how to ride orgasmic waves together!

To open up to the kind of sex and relationship that is really nourishing and supporting of our life’s purpose...

I explored:

  • Modern Sexual Anatomy (most is NOT up-to-date or complete!)
  • Spiritual and sacred sexuality
  • Love – self love & sharing love
  • Feeling safe in expressing my boundaries and needs
  • Making sex and nudity normal again, like very normal and natural
  • Polarity between the inner masculine and feminine, and, men and women
These are the things that allow you to experience your body's multi-orgasmic potential. This is my ongoing research and the framework of our exploration in my Multi-Orgasmic Method programs.
We are not taught about all the ways to orgasm and the different spots on and in our bodies that are so sensitive or that can be sensitized or how to awaken and use our own sexual energy...

I took this research very seriously. I travelled the world to attend intense taoist sexual alchemy, neo-tantric communities and seminars to explore the sexual shadows in our society.

I worked as a high class escort and dominatrix for a while... I went deep into the personal liberation of love and sexuality by living an open relationship style for the greater part of my life.

I have given 600+ hands on tao tantric bodywork and healing sessions to help awaken as well as release what blocks the free flow of love and sexual energy.

I came to this research through my dedication to a spiritual path in service of personal and global evolution, which has been present throughout my early teens and adult life. I had previously studied psychology (MSC) and spiritual counseling (MA) in which I worked for a while before then working with applied natural healthcare medicine and various healing methods.

My embodied research journey of discovering our sexual potential has helped me to become joyful, loving and orgasmic in everyday life. I got my spark back!

just one more thing...

I’m also passionate about liberating (female) sexuality, because I believe that when we are able to live truly authentic on the personal micro level, we can also do this on the bigger macro level.

For this we need to liberate love, relationships, and sexuality from fear and trauma.

So that it can be lived authentically through you.
So that you can be truly present and not distracted by old emotions and triggers.
So that you can be you without shame or fear.

And you don’t do this only for you, you also do it for those you are relating with and the next generations. Because you won’t pass on that fear and trauma anymore, but you’ll be contagious with living and shining your authentic empowerment fueled by the life force sexual energy!

What some of my clients have to say

"Mirjam's online course was very, very helpful. I especially liked the richness of background information that she provided for the embodied exercises. I could really understand where the practices are coming from and what intention informs them. And I loved the community calls. Sharing and exchanging experiences with like-minded women was truly wonderful. I would definitely recommend this course."
Paula (26), Germany
"In the beginning of this year I followed your energy orgasm workshop which was amazing! I got a lot out of it, a few doors opened and would love to learn, deepen and discover more in this area. A follow up would be really welcome!"
Anja (39), Netherlands
"In the hours after the workshop, I felt a lot of space and a strong connection to my female power. Mirjam has a very relaxed and open way of guiding through rituals/workshops. This way it's comfortable for me to really connect with myself and open up for processes and transformations. Mirjam carried the event very well and safely. Also, her enthusiasm for the matter shines through her, which is very enjoyable."
TANJA (33), NETHERLANDS
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